Other women drama can anyone give advice?

ok well when i met my hubbie he didnt know he had this other girl prego, so by the time i moved in with him is when he had barely found out and did not want to tell me then i found out by myself when the thing was that then i got pregnat it was such a depressing time for me since her baby is only 4 months older than my baby but now i am over it. i admit it gets me emotional but he has proved to me he wants to be with me because he loves me now the only problem is that she wont let him see her baby and i talked to her and she keeps saying no until the court day for child support comes out which is all the way until october and it hurts my husband but she wont even talk to him or anything and i seriously feel its my fault because i know even though she says no that she loves him and i feel that if i would have never showed up they probably would be a happy family and he would not be sad he didnt get to be with his other baby and she would not hold anything against himOther women drama can anyone give advice?
wow drama is right.


you coming into the picture didn't change anything- weren't they separated when you and your hubbie met? regardless he's with you right now.


the other woman is likely going through her won issue- don't take them on as your's. wait until the court date and do things by the books- its you husbands best chance to get visitation rights and be able to build a relationship with this child.


but it sounds like the two of you are depressed. you need to work through this together and really make efforts to support each other- both of you- this isn't your job to make everything fine and happy for him, just to support and understand why this is hard for him, but he needs to realize and be compassionate about why this is hard for you too. this isn't what you bargined for when you go t married.


i'm sorry its hard- but if you two can treat this other woman compassionately and do what you can to build trust with her family relations will be much much easier...Other women drama can anyone give advice?
Oh, Hun, Its not your fault. You didnt even know! Hope everything works out.

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