Saturday, December 19, 2009

Girls/Women, I need some relationship advice ?

Alright. I met this girl this summer and I like her a lot. We went out to places the whole summer long but it was always with a small group of ppl. I can tell she likes me too btw she acts. We talk almost everynight on aim and flirt back and forth with each other. I havent told her how i feel about her yet, but im planning on doing that this weekend. The thing is that she is moving across the country to go to school. She'll be back for the major holidays like christmas and spring break and summer though. I dont know what to do. I need to tell her how i feel bc its eating me up inside and she really makes me happy. I just wish she wasnt going away, and that she would just stay here. What should i do? Will a long distance relationship work out? Im sooo confused on what to do...what do you think?Girls/Women, I need some relationship advice ?
definately tell her. Yes long distance sucks alot and most budding relationships cant handle it, but you guys dont have to be exclusive right away. plus you'll see eachother on holidays and such and if you can last this year apart from eachother maybe by next year you'll be able to move down there or she can transfer or you guys can work something out. If she really means that much to you, you can wait a year, or better yet move with her! you might have to make some changes to your plans or have to wait awhile but it will be worth it.Girls/Women, I need some relationship advice ?
well if you're 12, than no it's no going to work. But if you're 16+ then you can make it work if you work hard enough.. Just know that you're going to miss out [and her] on dances and dates that makes a relationship work., ya know? But if you both care for eachother and want to make it work, go ahead, it will pay off at the end..
Well, if your very sure she like you, go for it, when you guys are really flirting, then say, ';Um, hey, i just wanted to know if you liked me.';


About the distant relationship thing, personally I don't think they work, you cant see what the other person is doing. idk. follow your heart :D





good luck :D
long distance relationships never work out too well..but i think you should tell her asap. that way it will be out there and both of you would be looking forward to seeing each other again
She probably knows how you feel already. We girls/women are verrrry perceptive that way. You should definitely tell her how you feel.





Long-distance relationships don't usually work out. But maybe if you keep in touch (call a few nights a week or email/IM back and forth) it might work out.





She'll probably meet a lot of other guys where she's going. The thing is, you won't know whether she's seeing someone behind your back. This uncertainty on your part may cost the relationship.





She might also think that you'll meet another girl while she's gone and fall in love.





I think it's the uncertainty that really kills long-distance relationships. Even if neither of you are seeing anyone, you'll still worry about it so much that you will argue and fight.





Tell her how you feel. She probably always knows, though.





Good luck.
I would just tell her. If you are both mature enough and are in love than yes it can work. But if you are a very young couple, than that might be too difficult. I would just tell her. you will never know until you try.
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