Saturday, December 19, 2009

I think I like good looking men as well as women, but I am not gay. What is your advice?

Being gay or straight and are not necessarily clear cut, rather it is a fuzzy continuum ranging from pure gay, to slightly gay, to bisexual, to mainly straight, to purely straight. This is the reality of how both women and men are. Furthermore, the ';degree of gayness'; for a person can change with time. Still further - believe it or not- you have some control on the ';degree of your gayness'; by your sexual behavior. For example if you have some gay tendencies, and decide to engage in gay sex, or masturbate to gay porn, you will become ';more gay';. Similarly, if you decide not to act on your gay tendencies i.e. not engage in any gay sex and don't masturbate to gay porn or gay fantasies, you will become ';less gay'; i.e. ';more straight';. . This has important implications to people who are in a ';normal'; marriages (not gay marriages) who find themselves having gay tendencies. By not acting on their homosexual urges, and sticking to their monogamous straight sexual relationship, they can weaken their gay tendencies or Even eradicate them. I know all this might sound really weird to some people, who think you are either born gay, or straight.


The most important thing is for you to accept yourself and not feel giulty or ashamed about your sexuality, and if you find that hard to do , see a good therapest. If you are not in a committed relationship, you have the freedom to explore all sides of your sexuality, BUT ONLY IF YOU CHOOSE TO.I think I like good looking men as well as women, but I am not gay. What is your advice?
You're bisexualI think I like good looking men as well as women, but I am not gay. What is your advice?
You may be bisexual. You should gonsider talking with a sex therapist if you are confused about your sexuality.
No one is gay. It's all in your mind. Go easy with it, you're fine. There's nothing wrong with that. It's like females getting stimulated by other females. I get that all the time, and it's totally normal to admire someone of your own sex like that, but not in an overly sexual manner.
So you're bi, thats okay
thats just who you are if you like men then you cant help it no one can control there feelings you ****** hahaha just kidding but you better get use to it now because when you come out of the closet alot of people are going to have something to say but STAY AWAY FROM MY MAN!
welcome back, what no more jewish jokes? yahoo police on your case?





my advice is stay clean and enjoy your millions you earned.
Unless you want to keep it to just women and deal with it.......otherwise you need to go explore go to a gay club and see what happens if youre afraid of someone finding out go to one a few miles away. You could go online and search around to see what it does for you.You most likely are bi- or are still a closet case in denial. Either way you need to get out there and try it on it may be just a fantasy you never make a reality.
i get it by women ita alright. just dont let it get out of hand. watch some videos
u r gay.

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