Okay... I dated guy #1 for a 1 and 1/2 years. He gave me a ring for my 18th birthday (October 23) it wasnt anything but an I love you present. November 8th he broke up with me. Well the next day I had to take my dog to the vet and there I bumped into a guy that I'd had a crush on since I was 12 and never really could forget him even after he moved away (i didnt see him for 6 years) and we started talking and swapped numbers and he asked me out for that Friday well we've been together ever since (this november marks 3 year anniversary).
My problem is that I'm now living with guy #2 but guy #1 just wont give up he refuses to date anyone else or even look at other girls because he's convinced I'll be his one day again. I've told him time and tiem again that I'm not ready to leave guy #2. I moved out of state with guy #2 got new jobs and new numbers and still he always finds a way to find me. HELPRelationship Advice needed...Help please? Women/Men?
Don't look back my friend. He dumped you now he wants another chance Pllleeaassee. Do not give it to him. What kind of guy gives you a ring and dumps you after........a wierdo thats who. He is playing games and if you take him back he will keep doing what he is doing . Anyways if you are happy in your current relationship do not jeapordize it 4 this sucker.
Good luck and be strong.Relationship Advice needed...Help please? Women/Men?
Depending on how bad it is, it could be classed as stalking you, or harrassment. Either way, you could always get a court order to get him to stay away from you and to stop all contact.
Either call the cops or have guy #2 beat the #2 out of guy #1.
i was in a similar situation.
tell him in an email (so you have proof) that if he keeps contacting you, you are going to get an order of protection against him.
his behavior is classic of a stalker or harrassment. if you do not give in to him, he may start following you around. if he is that tenacious, better safe than sorry. it may be harsh, but you must protect yourself.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment