Calling all women! My 15 yr old daughter needs advice!?

ok Ladies, she won't fully listen to me cuz I'm mom. Her hot Jock boyfriend broke up with her. Why because he says he's so busy and her family is too strict? He's going to Fl and CA durring the summer...(betcha he wants his freedomn so he can chase all the pretty girls there....right)But he still keeps calling her and flirting with her. Please tell her that no matter how beautiful and sweet you are teen age boys and most men always want something new. It's not her!!!! He flirts and calls cuz he wants to keep her hanging on. AM I RIGHT?Calling all women! My 15 yr old daughter needs advice!?
Yes. If he cared about her he would not have broken up with her. He keeps calling to make sure she doesn't find a new interest, almost like he wants something to fall back on after he returns from having his fun. She needs to remember that he broke up with her and while she is miserable he is enjoying himself. She shouldn't answer his calls.Calling all women! My 15 yr old daughter needs advice!?
You're right Lola and besides she's too young to get caught up in someone who's making up excuses not to be with her.


She needs to forget about this boy and go out with her friends and have fun. There will be plenty of guys knocking at your door to date her when she's a little more mature to handle relationships. At the age of 15 she should be enjoying her childhood and focusing on school.
Of course he wants to keep her hanging on! He wants to go to FL and CA this summer and have his freedom to do whatever (and whoever) he wants. After the summer, he will come home and probably want to get back with her. In the meantime, he doesn't want her to see anybody else, so he is keeping her hanging on!! Tell her to be carefull!
U R right! He sounds like he's ne good. She doesn't need to be chained to a boy who's just gonna hurt her again. He broke up with her, tell her not to let him hang around. If he wanted to keep her, he would have. He's got issues. Find someone else for the summer, have fun and tie yourself down to one guy for a while agian... Just enjoy the free food and movies!!! hehehehe
BROKE UP means bye bye, tah tah, adios. When the caller ID says it is him, it's your phone and you do not have to pick it up. Besides, at 15, she has alot of living to do.
We all want to protect our children from pain, but as an experienced mom of three grown daughters,i learned that i could advise them, but couldnt make them do as i personally wished.they needed to make the choices for them selves..if their choices were god,then they and i were proud, but when the choices turn bad,it is a learnign experience we as moms cant personally show them....the need to go through some of the pains to learn something new...in order to not repeat..they will remember and follow another path the next time around.
Well i can tell you men want one thing and one thing only ,you just need to move on and find some one who will love you for who you are.
Yes. He is just keeping her on the back burner in case things don't work out with all his other girls this summer. The best thing for your daughter to do would be to just forget about him. It sounds like he is a jerk and full of himself, or else he has a self-esteem issue and needs to have somebody there for him even if he doesn't currently have a girlfriend. I hope your daughter listen's to you! %26gt;L
you are exactly right!...all guys in general want to know that no matter what they do they always have the ';one'; they know they can do whatever to...she is too young to be caught up in all of that drama...
you are a wise woman ;)
yeah your daughter is just at the age were every thing seems normal to her and no one can tell her otherwise. just let her learn on her own. she is going to get hurt but she has to learn. trust me when i was her age my mom would tell me the same thing and sooner or later i learned the hard way. so be very patient. ok take care and good luck.
Very true. I think your daughter just likes him so much she thinks he is telling her the truth but that is just not the case your right he wants his freedom and i betcha after the summer after he has his fun he will be looking to hook back up with your daughter!
Well, she probably won't listen to me either, but yes you're right.





If he was the one she was meant to be with he would be spending as much time with her before he left for vacation, and begging her to wait for him!





GIRL%26gt;%26gt; Quit taking his calls. Up your nose when you pass him in the halls. TOTALLY ignore him. You deserve better! Once you get passed him, some one better is waiting for you to be single so HE can treat you right!
Who knows what goes through the minds of teenage boys or girls for that matter. I would say that this guy is a tool and that she should find some other boy to spend time with. That will get him.
it's not her
i think you are right but she is using her heart and not her head. You want to believe the best in everyone especially your bf but it ends up being the wrong thing. She is probally going to have to find out the hard way as much as we love our kids they have to make thier own mistakes and make up thier own minds we can try to protect them but it's their choice in the end.
Most definite! Teen boys and men always want something they can't have. He is absolutely leading you on and will continue until you break it off. Mom is right and I know for a fact my children didn't believe me either until they were older. Honey trust mom, she has been there and has some knowledge on you. I am sorry you are going through this but move on.
i dont know u dick
once he leaves the state he will want the other girls, its a guy for ya. if she stays with him he will try to get her do something with him and at 15 thats not good [ believe me im a mom at 14]. he may call cause he has nothin else to do and flirt is all he knows how to do.
SO YOU'RE RIGHT, WHOOPIDY F.U.C.K.ING DO. NOW I BET YOU WENT UP IN HIS GRILL, AM I RIGHT?
What I would tell her is that at this age no guy is serious about anything. What she really needs to do is find some good girls to hang out with and keep strong on not allowing him to constantly call him.
You are soooo right, tell her to tell him that it is was great idea for him to want to break up,and say to him I have a busy summer planned as well and plenty of other people to hang out with.The ball will be in her court then and it will be like she broke up with him since he is still calling and flirting. Reversing a bad situation
Yes, you are right Mrs Lola.
YES! Find a way to scare him away... ^.^
It's a horrible thing for you to tell her ';most men always want something new.'; Do not put those thoughts in her head. Especially at 15. She is very impressionable.


Just be there for her and listen to her. Tell her she is better off without him.


he sounds like a real jerk anyway.


Just be careful with your words. You could scar her.
i'll give you a mans advice. tell her he is just using her for a booty call and he could care less about her, especially if he's leaving he's just trying to get all he can get before he's gone and then he'll be hitting on all the girls down there and wont even think about her when he's gone. yes mom, you are definately right !!
Okay MOM you been hurt a lil huh? If she is just talking and flirting I think that is okay. She can still talk on the phone and not be hanging on. I would definitely tell her not to put her life on hold though. And remember MOM sometimes we have to let our kids find things out for their self and be there for them when they do.
YES you are right....listen to mom, even they know the right answers.
Yes mom you are very right. She is 15 years old. She shouldn't be so emotionally involved with a guy. She has an entire future ahead of her and I guarantee her that she will find better guys when she gets older. Not only b/c he is a Jock doesn't mean that he is the ONE for her. And yes, most men do always want something new, and I suggest not to give them what they want, b/c at the end you are going to regret it. Don't ruin your life for a stupid boy that is playing you like play station two. You need to move on and look at the life ahead of you. And the best advice that you can ever get is from your MOM. By the looks of it she really cares about you and is worried that you might end up getting hurt and played. She is your best-friend and the one that will guide you through the right path. My mom is my best-friend and without her I'd be nothing. She is your guardian angel and thank God that you have a mom that at least cares about you. And blow off that Jock b/c I guarantee you that in Ca he has done that to you. Show that you are a better person. And mom, if your daughter is a hard head. Let her learn from her mistake. Be proud of yourself for even trying to prevent a heart break. Good Luck to both of you.
oh common.... its up t0 y0u!!!......ahuh...!!!!
You are right. Most guys (and girls, in fact) aren't interested in anyone but themselves and what they want. Some guys out there will acutally be mature and care about her, but clearly this looser isn't one of those guys. Frankly, highschool age guys generally are not worth it.





SO girl, listen to you mom. And remember that YOU are SPECIAL, and precious! and somewhere out there there is a guy for you. You don't have to have a bf all the time, and you are disrespecting yourself when you let guys take advantage of you. Clearly this dude just likes to have you (a pretty girl) like him...it appears to all be for his ego. Don't let him have that! Because you are WORTH so much MORE!