Advice from guys and mature women needed?

Scenario:





Had sex with a certain guy once. 2 years on I only snog him and never, ever do more. i like him lots but tend to blow hot and cold on him he says he likes me too but we aint together. i dont understand why he still talks to me is it because





a - he thinks one day i will give into him and have sex


b - he likes me but does not want to get hurt by me


c - he justs wants me on standby if its this why?


d - something else and if so what





help me understand this and dont say why not talk to him because i have tried that....Advice from guys and mature women needed?
d - maybe he just likes you and thinks one day there will be more, but more than just sex.





Do you want more? I think you should be having a long talk with him to see what he wants and to tell him what you want.Advice from guys and mature women needed?
Maybe they just like you as a friend, nothing sexual or devious, they just like spending time with you. Sounds like you've got more issues with what you want...
me being a male and having the same as he did i still hang becuse she is just way too good looking and too fun to be with would like sex again but not counting on it . it makes all the other guys jelous and the other woman wonder about me
Why don't you just ask him?
He like you likes the fact,you got together and are still friends.Don't be surprised if this draws you closer together and yous end up with a house full of children(49 IN FACT).Or is that the number on your front door i see.
maybe he just wants to be good mates, or as you say he dont want to get hurt, why dont you ask him what harm can it do, you dont think that someone could of told him a story after you had sex, i e saying you said bad things ?there are quite allot of crazy lying people around. you wont know unless you ask.





good luck
sounds like he's keeping you on standby.. kinda like, it he can't find anyone to f**k after a while, he knows you'll be there
Maybe he is happy the way things are,and doesnt want to change it, if you've been on and off for two years he cant be that unhappy or he would be away by now.
You should leave him alone let him make the move, that way your not guessing if hes interested or not.


stay in school. And don't have sex until you have a commitment.