I don't know what to do and I need someones help... I need advice for both men and women!?

My boyfriend has a very busy schedule and there would be no way that we would be able to see or talk to eachother cause he has school, work study, marching band and he's the section leader of his section and homework! So there would be no way that it would work out and both of us be happy..so we decided to go on a break until after marching season which ends after november 17th... we just split up and it's already killing me... I told him that i would wait for him....but I don't know what to do! I need someone's advice....I don't know what to do and I need someones help... I need advice for both men and women!?
Well November will be here soon enough. Might I suggest that you start journaling your feelings? Your could use a notebook or just write letters that you keep. It'd be sorta sweet to write your thoughts down as if you were talking to your boyfriend. That way, when you get back together, you can copy some of it out for him and share it. :)


I think you've made a good sacrifice, give yourself credit. I believe that by making time for your boyfriend each day, even though it's only on your part, you'll get through the time and not feel so lonely. When November comes around you'll have a very good understanding of yourself and your feelings.I don't know what to do and I need someones help... I need advice for both men and women!?
Get a few minutes and talk to him anything is possible if you put your mind to it. You could leave notes in lockers or online and find a few minutes to talk every couple days. Think about it as long distance. Sounds like you definitely need to talk to him though and see if he is feeling the same about you.
Find the time. Write down his schedule and find out when hes free. Go to his practices.
is it killing you for him or killing you to have a boyfriend? what is it you missing the most from not having a boy freind
Take it easy. You both agreed that it would only be until november 17. In the meantime, concentrate on yourself and your studies. If it is meant to be, then you guys will get back together. Who knows, you might decide you don't want him back. Either way, it is not healthy to be that hung up on someone no matter what age you are. (been there and it cost me my health).
dont wait for him cuz if u do u will have a crappy school year if he doesnt have time for u or cant make time o well he is not worth it plus couldnt u study 2gether he can make time dont wait go for another guy!!!!!
Tell him how you feel.
DONT W8


COZ LIFE IS GOING ON FAST AND U WILL LOOSE TIME....SEEK FOR ANOTHER GUY ...SO UR LIFE WONT B MISRABLE
Well, Honey, do you want someone in your life who has no time for you? Why? Most importantly, does he love you the same way you love him? What do you expect from this relationship? Ask these questions from yourself? Be honest with your self. You heard the expression ';Life is short';. He seemed pretty goal oriented person. Is your time worth for waiting him mostly. Let him to do what he wants to do. You can not change him. he might come back to you. I know it is horrible to break up. I've been there. It will take time to heal. This is the part of life and learning experience. You will grow.


Read information help you to heal and forward your life positively. You will find a nice person that is just right for you one day. Good Luck.
ok go on a break not a break up !





U should keep intouch at least by text msging or emailing each other daily or even weekly ! not completely stop speaking to each other :/





GooC LucK ^__^
You could always join the marching band or the color guard so yuo can be with him.
talk to him again and see if both of you can agree to see other people for a while then see how you feel after november 17
Take it one day at a time. You feel this way now, but things could change dramatically by 11/17. Either you or he could find someone else to be interested in, or you may be able to tough it out. Worrying about it won't help you no matter what happens.





In the meantime, find something else to occupy your time. The best way to get through the next few months is to keep your mind occupied. If it's meant to be, it will be.
first off let me just tell u this is a reallt tough situation


the first u have to do is ask yerself do u reeally love this guy and wanna sacrifice alot for him


2. ask yerself or him is he willing to sacrifice for you


also if u guys go to the same school hang out there and u could visit him at his jobs (ik some dont allow that but if his does) u could go watch his marching band practice (if they allow that) u could help him study and do your homework together


and if none of this works then it all comes down to this


maybe its just....not meant to be


hope i hel[ed =]]


good luck with yer relationship!!!!