Are there any women out there who can give solid advice on how to convince your wife to try ';backdoor'; love?

yes, get her good and drunk... and grease it up.. then just gently slip it in there.Are there any women out there who can give solid advice on how to convince your wife to try ';backdoor'; love?
If you have asked her and she's said no then you have to respect that or get another wife who does.Are there any women out there who can give solid advice on how to convince your wife to try ';backdoor'; love?
Most women dont want to try this because they think it will be embarassing. Its kind of compicated...it cant be done if you have to poop. of course, a guy wont know when that is. It would be embarassing to have poop all over your husbands penis. not exactly romantic. Why are men obsessed with this? its so gross. seriosuly, its poop. POOP! think about it! how is that a turn on??? if its not tight enough, she can have surgery to tighten her hymen.
she should be comfortable with it not have to be convinced, but if you do talk her into it make sure she knows that you will be gentle and if it starts to hurt her you will stop.
I myself am 51 years old and theres just some things i wont do and thats one of them.If she doesnt want to leave her alone.Theres all kinds of other stuff to do besides that.
It's interesting to me so many men want this but think it is repulsive if two guys do it...


Anyways, what are the main reasons she doesn't want to do it? Is she scared it will hurt? Does she just think it sounds gross?


If we ever do, it's ALWAYS in the shower...I won't do it anywhere else. Tell her it can be great, sometimes even as good as vaginal sex...if you are gentle with her.


I believe the purpose of sex is to please your partner and show them you love them. So, maybe you should do something she wants and she will do what you want...
Now, why would you want to pervert your wife's enjoyment of sex to endanger yourself to a disease from coliform bacteria and microorganisms that could infect your penis or your wife's anus? I don' t think so. You will have to do it alone.
I agree with i2needama..


Give her a few drinks to relax her, grease her %26amp; yourself up well and go easy.....


I enjoy ';backdoor love'; with just about all of my partners...


Novice or Experienced, they all enjoy it and orgasm after a little


practice....It will take several times before they begin to really enjoy it....
get a life. YOu obviously have been watching porn or something. You've been depraved. The Poop shoot is for pooping..............
I feel the reason why most girls would be afraid to try anal sex is because:





1. They don't know enough about it.


2. They fear it because or horror stories they heard


3. They think it is dirty and painful.


4. They are worried that they could get an affection, ether vaginal or bladder if things enter the correct place.





I think if you talk to her about it and reassure her and tell her that things will be done slowly and that she will have complete control as to when to stop...etc...you will have a better chance of her being open minded to anal sex. I think it is mostly the fear of the unknown that prevents girls from trying it out.





Start it in a different fashion like:





During your usual romp in the hay, just shove it up the other entry and say ';whoops, I slipped';
Honestly, it is something that she needs to agree with. try to show her that it feels good by using your tongue or introduce your finger, use plenty of lube and don't force it. I read some of the others advice, some people are just so niave, they don't even know there own bodies. Anal sex doesn't have to hurt, it isn't messy if done properly and at the right time, and it can be as enjoyable as vaginal sex to both.
Is there anyway we can convince you to go find a guy and get screwed up the A**. If you won't do it and think it would hurt, why would you ask your wife to do something she obviously dosn't want to do.
WHAT HAS BECOME OF THIS WORLD!
if there's anything she wants you to do but you haven't wanted to, you could always use that as a bargainng chip. if you can't think of anything, unlimited orgasms for one day is a pretty good negotiation tool, too!