Sunday, December 27, 2009

I need some advice from men and women please about my relationship?

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 years last year we just had a baby and our relationship kinda went down from there i learned a lot of things that i am not happy about with him he started going to strip clubs and when we would fight he would go on these nasty dating websites so we broke up over the summer and he was like hanging out with other girls one who said she had sex with him he denies it but i don' tbelieve him..so we got back to try and make things work for our son be i still don't t Trustt him its so hard and he makes me feel very insecuree about my self.the other night we went to AC and in the casino there were theses half naked girls dancing on the stage and i saw looking over there and he was looking at all theses girls walk by and when i confront him he says i am crazyy.so would you get mad if your bf did that or am i just insecuree and should let it goI need some advice from men and women please about my relationship?
He's going to strip clubs with you knowing about it. What do you think he's doing that you don't know about?I need some advice from men and women please about my relationship?
This relationship has gone sour. For you to ask for advice its obvilously playing on your mind. You already know what to do. LEAVE HIM!!! He doesn't deserve you as a girlfriend and the mother to his child. Stay friends for your childs sake but there is no need to keep living like this as one day your insercurity is going to turn into depresssion. You will find somebody that adores you and treats you well. Your currant bloke sounds like he has a lot more growing up to do and doesn't give a **** about your feelings. Good luck i hope you find the strength to do whats right for your mental health and your childs happiness. x
it is normal to look I let my husband look as long as he doesn't touch, and well please don't do it for the baby, i hate it when people say they doit for their kids, ( I am a mom too), I went though that I was the kid that my mom stayed with my dad for, and I am not thankful for that, i would of preferred them separated than together and probs all the time and my dad humiliating my mom and just a really bitter life, so please don't say you wanna do it for your kid, he can still have a dad even if he is not with you. if he make you feel so insecure and bad about yourself, you don't need him, there's a lof of guys out there that can treat you better than that.
let it go, thats what casinos have, its show,
He's a child. Start collecting child support and move on.
Number one don't stay together for the child I've done the this makes for a very unhappy relationship. But you must remember he is a guy guys stare at girls. I'm not making excuses for him but that's what we do the biggest thing I get from your story is that you don't trust him anymore I had a wife that I couldn't trust anymore either he was the hardest thing I had to do but without trust there is no relationship wherever he goes whatever he does you'll always be there lying awake at night wondering what he's doing so do yourself a favour there's a lot of good men out there find one that will be there for you and your child not one that wants to stick his pecker in anything that moves good luck I wish you the best I know it's hard when you love somebody but when you find the right man you will know!!!

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