I need some advice from guys and women on this one please?

Hi everyone! Well, i met this guy that i've liked for a while about 8 months ago. We have been talking ever since, but just don't find the time to hang out because we both have school, and HE has work. He's a DJ. We've made SOME time to see eachother. Anyway, We sometimes talk through texts or even the phone when we get time. He has a myspace, and doesnt kno i have one, and i saw a girl on his page who was put as # 1. She had a picture of them both and they were hugging.I have to say i did get a little suspicious. I don't know if he has a girlfriend for sure, because it just hasn't come up for a while. Plus, she was moved DOWN on his list. I'm aiming for asking him though. Anyway, i don't know if he really likes me to be with me or just for sex, because when we text he usually gets into that mood where he writes sexual things oin the texts he sends me. He hasn't asked me out and i can say that im getting a little, um, IMPATIENT! Is this a good guy or just another player?I need some advice from guys and women on this one please?
Ok, first of all...this guy is a DJ. Which means he gets hit on at the clubs ALL the time! Don't think otherwise. I have worked in clubs for a long time and the girls get drunk, horny, and just want to sleep around. Trust me on this one. Also, if the only time he calls you is when he's horny then that should tell you right there that he is only looking for one thing. He hasn't asked you out b/c he gets the milk for free so why buy the cow. And as far as the myspace pic, I really wouldn't be too worried about it. I take pictures with my friends all the time. It could be nothing or it could be everything. The answer is: He is a definite PLAYER! Cut your losses and move on!I need some advice from guys and women on this one please?
just ask him about this girl and snop around give him a chance but dont close your eyes.
first of all what kinf of things(sexual things) he say to you?
you answered yourself when you say he texts you about sex...gross leave him before he gives you something you don't want and it ain't LOVE%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;
this doesnt say much ab him, tell him u have myspace and see where he puts u....and believe me us guys will write anything in a text but dont have the guts to say them in person, atleast most are respectful enough not to, but idk its ur call on if he's a good guy
He's a player. If he was really interested he would have asked you out by now. Hello, it's been 8 months. Move on and find someone who is really interested. You are wasting your time with this character.
The guys a player, he's a DJ for cryin out loud. While he is texting you, he's going to pick up another hoochie, I mean hottie, like you. Pull your head out, the sun is shining. Have Fun!!!!
He sounds immature. Guys who write sexual stuff in texts to girls are very immature. You need an older guy or a guy with a more developed brain!
sounds like a player to me and definately not worth your time ..move on to someone who wants to spend time with YOU and you only..... and forget about this trash.....
OK, instead of thinking is the guy a player or not. Think about yourself first. For example, if he said he likes you and wants to go out with you. Then he wants to sleep with you. Will you do it. If you say yes, it doesn't matter if he's a player or good guy. Fact is you will sleep with him. If you answer no, honestly, then still ask him out. Because love should have no risk if you are willing to control yourself and love yourself. There is no way you can change or hope he is a certain way. So just trust yourself. Good luck!
Hold on, your not alone. Many girls have been through this and it's good you asked for help. I went through the same thing. Can you trust him? Ask yourself that. If he talks more about sex than your ralationship and about you. consider that he may only be in it for sex. Be open minded and do whats best for you. Ask him about the other girl but dont be suprised if he's mad you've been looking on his page and he didn't know.
forget him dont waste ur time..
If he hasnt' asked you out yet..Im sorry to say i been through this and it's just the sex.. He knows you are there and will be there for him in that need. Start looking for another
If he brings up anything about sex before even asking you out on a date then he does sound like a player. But you did say that the two of you have spent time together a few times so that may not be the case. I say give him some time before you jump to conclusions about what his motive is. But I will say that if he's into you he'll make it known that is if he's a real man. Good luck.
PLAYER!!!
probally a player but that could be a friend of his or a relative
I think he just someone who wants u as a friend and sex he could have a gurl on the side she has to be important if she is number one on his page and she is in one of his pic i could be wrong but people on my space don't show the opp sex on there page unless its sum thing going on and they huggin two sounds like a player
For the love of God, what the hell does Myspace have to do with anything. Who gives a **** if SATAN is his number one friend. IT DOESN'T MATTER. And i have pictures of me and guy friends hugging but that doesn't mean I like them, so that shouldn't be important. And finally, any guy that texts you sexual comments is not a good guy.