I need advice from men and women on this. It's a VERY serious issue i need help on..?

Hi everyone! I have a friend that is desperate for advice. She's 15. She's a gorgeous girl, and im not just saying that. She has liked this guy for quite a while! When we were younger he was like her dream guy lol :). Anyway, she met him one day she was walking down the street by his house. He introduced himself and was being a complete gentlemen. They set up a date to hang at the park. That day he let her know he was 20. I couldn't believe it! The guy looks like he's about 17 or 18. But yea, he's 20. She quickly told me about this, and is sad because he's such a great guy to her but the age difference is a problem. Although she said he was a sweet guy and she wants a relationship with him, she showed me some of the texts he sent her on her phone. A couple times already, he has brought up the ';sex'; subject. Things like ';i want you in bed';. She's worried that he just wants her for sex and NOT a relationship. What should i tell her?! I don't want to give her the wrong advice...I need advice from men and women on this. It's a VERY serious issue i need help on..?
If hes sending her text messages just talking about sex he probably just wants SEX ! If he were truly interested in getting to know her he wouldn't even be talking about that yet also with the age difference i wouldn't trust him at all tell her to stay away and don't waste her time with someone like thatI need advice from men and women on this. It's a VERY serious issue i need help on..?
No 20 year old has anything in common with a 15 year old. You will never convince me of this. It's also illegal in many places.
Tell her to run as far away from him as she can. Your friend is a minor and this 20 year old who you say is a gentleman, is no gentleman talking about wanting sex with her. He knows he will be breaking the law if he touches her in that manner. So a guy 20 yrs. old trying to have sex with a minor


is crazy and is asking for jail time if he crosses the line. Tell your friend to leave this guy alone...he is nothing but trouble. She needs to tell her parents as well...
Tell her to stay away, he's too old for her. It's illegal most places for him to have sex with her.


She needs to save herself for a serious relationship when she is older.
She should heed her feelings about being worried. She is 15, he is 20 and any sexual relationship would be illegal. For a reason. He sounds pretty smooth and may very well be a nice guy and fun and handsome and all the things that at 15 make a potential boyfriend look ideal. But the texting about sex should tell her what is foremost on his mind. Not her company, not her upcoming prom, not her having an open and good relationship with her family, not her education, not her feeings, not her selfworth. It will be a very hard lesson to learn and one best not learned by someone as transparent as this.
I would not tell, but WARN your friend that the majority of 20year old Men are sexually active, and looking for sex, because of their high hormonal drive. This could be true for younger guys too, but by age 20, he is not a virgin, and is used to getting sex. I would advise her to cool this relationship, because he will keep pressuring her, and one day, in a moment of weakness, she might give in.


He might be a great guy, but not for someone her age.
leave him alone
Tell her that he is inviting trouble via his text messages!Who will be considered a saint if he messages her without restraining his explicit sexual emotions over a phone!It is not a healthy start and it won't be a healthy relationship either!