Women only!!! My dad just gave me some advice is it true?

Women only love money. He says this is the truth they do not care about the guys just their money. He also says no one will ever love me beacuse im not a ';man'; like he is. so is it true? Women only!!! My dad just gave me some advice is it true?
Wow, I can't believe your dad would say that to you. No it isn't true, maybe just the women he has met only care about money. I for one care about anything but money, yes, it is nice to have, but I am not married to a rich man, but we get by ok.


Someday you will find someone who loves you a lot. Hopefully more then your dad, because I can't see how he loves you very much and talks to you like this. Your dad is wrong to tell you things like this.





Not all women are bad, just like not all men are either.Women only!!! My dad just gave me some advice is it true?
No not true at all. I have been with guys with no money. Yes there are a lot of gold diggers out there and do just want money from guys but not all of them. I (from what everyone tells me) am very pretty and just because a girl is pretty does not mean they are all gold diggers, you just have to watch for the signs. If they start askn how much you make and make you pay for everything then she might be a gold digger. I think that things should be pretty equal, guys pay sometimes and girls pay sometimes. But bottom line no not all of them ae gold diggers.
No your father is wrong. Maybe the women in his life didn't love him they loved his money, but that don't mean that you will have the same experience in life. I am thinking at this point that you are probably more of a man than your father ever thought about being so I don't think that is true either, and what a thing for a father to say to his son. He isn't a very good daddy, sounds like he is jealous of you or something.
That may have been true with the women your Dad had experience with, but in general, it IS NOT true. That's not to say there aren't women out there like that, but you just have to be careful. I taught my Sons not to be a big spender with the girls they dated, so they wouldn't go for them just for the money. I told them to wait for a special girl and once they started feeling serious about her, then they can treat her special by buying things for her. If you follow this advice, you shouldn't have any problems! You will be man in your own way and of course there is someone out there that will love you, just the way you are! Don't let your Dad's bitterness discourage you, he is blinded by bad experiences.
This is insane. All people (men and women) like money. It's just a fact. Do you ever hear any person say, you know, I don't like money, I don't need it? Most women are not gold diggers. But we do want some security and stability in our lives and often it involves some money. It works both ways though. Your dad is seeing things only from his perspective. He is wrong. He also sounds bitter and may not have a real relationship. I love my husband. I married him for who he is. He was in debt to his eye balls but we are dealing with it. We are a team. My husband loves me and he makes more than me but I have a good future earning potential. It's possible that a man will love you. Your father is old fashioned and out of touch. I think he's bitter and has his own problems. Don't let him take you down. Just laugh it off. He doesn't know what he's talking about.





edit: I'm a woman and I could never ever date let alone marry someone just for money. I could have and it would have turned into love or it wouldn't happen. Some women are attracted to men that have qualities that make them be rich. (self made men) They are strong and confident. Some women are drawn to that. You can't say that all women are the same because that's not true at all.
I'm a woman, and I love money. But I love my husband more than I love money. When he and I first got together, he was jobless and broke!





Dad is wrong on 3 things.





#1. Women don't ONLY love money. We love lots of things, for lots of reasons.


#2. Someone will love you, for you. Not what you have.


#3. Your dad isn't a ';man';. He's a sexist pig, who's probably, broke and bitter, and can't get a date. And now we know why...



Uuuh..





I think your dad has had some bad experiences!!





There is true love out there.





Perhaps you come from a rich family and people have taken advantage of this.





You'll know it's true love when no money is involved.





Everyone can be loved. No matter who you are!!


I'm not just saying this, I know.





Tell your dad to stop being so mean and let go of the past.





I have a feeling that's what's errupted this!





Go get a nice girl! :D


and by nice, someone who really is nice and not ';hot'; and a complete meany.


nice and hot does exist however.


Just take your time and be friends first so you know what they're like.


=]





Leah x
There are both men and women who are only interested in money. However, this is not true of everyone. You will find someone, your father should never have said that to you! Thats just horrible and uncalled for! Listen, learn to love yourself and be a good person... you will find the woman for you if you are true to yourself. Don't take any more advice from your father. If your father feels that he needs to put down his own son... then he is less of a man than he thinks he is. YOU are the man here. Good luck! xoxo
U know that's ont true! Of course women don't just want the money! all women are defferent, I think your father is just trying to wind u up or has a very sexist view tuards women! If i was u i'd make up my own mind about women and not just take what you told! not all women are like that! far from it! And what does he know about u finding love? U will find love in your own time. He can not pradict your future, so don't panic about what he said! his opinion of what is a 'man' could be very different to the opinion of the woman who loves u卢! so go for it! u will find love one day, don't let what he said affect u in one bit. your future is in your hands, not your fathers. I know I sound harsh, and I apologise if I hurt any one's feelings but it is true. good luck in finding love in the future and make your own mind up about women!
That is total BS! I just married my husband and he ';works for himself'; doing carpentry. I pay the rent, electric, phone and my auto payments/insurance. The only bill he pays is his auto insurance. He gives me money for bills when he can and he always makes sure when it's my birthday or Christmas that I get a gift, but I do the same too.


Money is not everything. Maybe your dad had a bad experience with a gold digger and I feel sorry for him. That doesn't mean he has the right to generalize all women.


Good luck!
Not all women want guys for their money,my OH isnt rich,infact he's on the lower end of the employment market but I love him for who he is not his wallet,ok we cant afford to go away every 5 minutes or buy expensive gifts but we are there for eachother always. Believe me not all women are like this.





I think you will find someone when the time comes,until then enjoy your single life to the full and go with the flo.





All the best.
If a woman only loves money she is shallow, but there are plenty of descent girls out there that will care about you. Money is a bit of an issue if your older but that shouldn't be a reason not to be with someone. If you're young...you're not a man, but it doesn't mean that some girl your own age won't love you.
no way. (the right kind of) girls are more fixed on is he paying attention when they talk and have thoughts like ';^^ he just opened the door for me he's so sweet'; not ';hm wonder how much money i can milk out of this sucker';





and a ';man'; is just someone they feel safe with(like they know you'll stay faithful) and like they can go to when they have a problem.
Not true, I would love to be comfortable and not live wishing to win something, but i'm no money grabber, and would never marry a man cos he's loaded. I've never been rich or had a lot of money, so what the heck.!


I wish I could win something because I've never been abroad and I'd love to go, but your dad has got it wrong somewhere.
Yes and No. It depends on what kind of woman your with. If she likes all the name brand clothes, jewelry, lots of make-up, high heels, purses, and stuff like that, more than likely, she'll expect you to BUY for her and if you dont have money, she wont want to be with you long. UNLESS you find a girl who cares about YOU and likes you for exactly who you are, doesnt matter if you have money, nice car, or whatever. You just really have to look for the right one. Promise we are not all alike!! :-)





--Louisiana--
Not a woman but your father told you a blatant lie . Some women are exactly that way , but the vast majority care about LOVE, being held, being able to talk things out with the hubby , making love because you do love them not just having sex like animals .


Follow your own head and heart . Your father seems to be bitter about women and seems to have been burned once or twice .
Mostly not true. There are some women out there that are stupid and only want money, but then you don't want to be with those girls anyway. I am attracted to his sense of humor, the way he treats girls, Friends and family. If a woman wants money, the only respectable way to get it is to earn it themselves. I take great pride in making my own living and not relying on the man.
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!! Everybody is different. For example, i know many people that like sensitive men. Others may prefer more manly men. The thing about the money is not true one bit!!! All women are not like that!!!! I dont understand how your father could say suchh a thing!!! Maybe he went through a bad relationship and the woman was like that but that doesnt mean that all women are gold diggers!!! Please speak to your father about this and try and find out why he believes this!!





Hope this helped!!






Did your pop have a bad experience??


IMHO the kind of man that generalizes that the entire world population of women are all golddiggers is not much of a man..not really wanting to dis on your pop, but cmon..


Not advice based on fact...have your own experiences...then you can judge for yourself.
That's rubbish. Men like your father think that women are commodities to be bought and sold. Sure there are some women like that, but there are plenty who like people for who they are. Once I'm finished with my education, I'll be way more qualified than my partner and make way more money, but that doesn't mean I'll be on to the next upgrade...because I'm not a shallow dipsh!t. Just saying...
I don't love money i love life.





I would rather be single and skint than be witsomeonene I didn't love.





Just watch out that you don't do what your Dad must have done and only chase vain selfish girls. Stay clear of girls that like branded goods and buy a new outfit for every date!





Prove to your Dad that you are even more of a man than he is.
It all depends on the type of woman you want. I would say about 80% of us are ';normal'; and love genuinely with our hearts.





Do yourself a favor and stay away from women who are more focused on material things. Life is short and beautiful. When we are gone those things are left behind. Genuine love and memories last forever.
are you kidding me? How old are you? Your Dad sounds like a bitter old man who can only feel good about his ';manhood'; by putting you down. You don't need to argue with him, just know, that is NOT true!! You'll get some smart *** answers on here saying that's true, but it isn't.





Sorry, but your dad is pretty damn pathetic.
Thats not true at all. I make more money than my man and i couldn't care less. Sounds to me like your dad has low self esteem and is trying to bring you down just to make him feel better. Prob jealous that your a young man with a lifetime of ladies and sex infront of you while he is old and past it!
Not true!





Why are you not a man'; like he is? Does he have money and you don't? I don't understand.





Anyway...women care about guys generally. I suppose some are just out for the money. Bear in mind though, that a woman would want a mate that is capable of making a decent living.
Your Dad is not right. I am very sorry to hear he gave you that advice. Obviously your Dad has been hurt by someone over money and he is very bitter. It sounds like he is taking his anger out on you. Know that you CAN be loved whether you have money or not. Good luck my friend.
you're dad is deffinately a d i ck. seriously, way to crush your self essteem.


i dont really care about a guys money, i mean its nice if he has money, but its not important.


listen to the beatles song ';Money Can't Buy You Love';


(:
Not true. As proof that not ALL women are after money, i am currently in a long relationship with a man, who barely scrapes by. I help him out financially every time he really needs it.





Your dad, i'm sorry to say, is wrong.
i wouldnt go as far as to call it ';money'; its more like stability...we want to feel secure in everything we own.....and he may not be a ';man';...especially if he is giving that type of advice from his son...just keep living...u'll learn the meaning of being a ';man'; = responsible
well, yes, it's true that SOME girls are only after money but not all of us are...i would never go out with someone just because they were rich or something...i know i'd rather have a guy who actually cared about me but no money than one who didn't care at all but was rich
awww that was mean. and no, all women are not all about the money. they like guys for who they are. some women will date a guy who has nothing, and she would be there for him. its all about who you are.