Friday, April 30, 2010

Can anyone give me some advice or tips on how NOT to be a jerk on my dates with women?

i think i have a problem with jerkism, the ladies never call me back for a second date nor return my calls, please help =(


(i am a 21 year old handsome man)Can anyone give me some advice or tips on how NOT to be a jerk on my dates with women?
avoid politics, religion, staring at the twins, and leaving her with the bill.





that should help.Can anyone give me some advice or tips on how NOT to be a jerk on my dates with women?
Open the car door for them. Pull out their chair. Pay for dinner. Open doors for them. Tell them they look wonderful. Kiss them goodnight, but dont go for anything else. Tell them at the end of the date you had a wonderful time.......and then.......................





YOU CALL THEM for a second date! Thats what gentlemen do!
If you want to have success with women, you have to be a little bit of a jerk. Women don't respect men who are too nice.


The trick is to know when, how, and to what extent to be a jerk. Read ';The Game'; by Neil Strauss. It'll tell you everything you need to know.
Don't talk about yourself to much.


If you are in akward silence ask questions about her.
stop trying so hard and just be yourself
be yourself, if they dont like it move on
well dont show up late to dates....and dont ever get her name confused with somebodys elses ...happened to me =)..not good
Jerk is a strong word ! Are you nice to the ladies ? Do you open the door for them ? Are you showing interest in what they are talking about ? Do you talk about yourself too much ? Or maybe try to sell yourself by telling her how great you are ? Believe me if you are a good person she will figure it out. Are you being too serious ? I think dates should be fun and light hearted. Ask her what she thinks of the restaurant you guys ate at or ask her if there is something she has wanted to do recently and go do it ( with in reason ) Smile alot , complement her . In general , just be nice to her. Good luck to you :)
Nice Guys Finish Last
Try to restrain yourself from being a jerk next time..be mature..
*Respect them


* Pull out their chairs/open doors


*Pay the bill


*Compliment them


*Don't say anything Rude/Raunchy
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